Christmas is coming :) It is really the most wonderful time of the year. The 'good wishes', 'the cards' and oh! The gifts... The kids are all excited! They are waiting for their wishes to be answered by Santa...
Here is my gift to all children (if you as the parents are willing to follow ...):
Please do not push your children to hug, kiss or show unwanted affection to any of the family members who they could only see once a year... Please do not push your kids to say 'thank you' when they don't want to...
Instead please help them find a different way to show their affection and appreciation!
They may color or draw a picture and give it as thanks or showing their affection. A high-five may do the trick. They can sing a song or perform their favorite trick instead.
You as the parents call for a meeting with your kids in advance. You can talk about different ways to show affection and appreciation to all friends and relatives they will meet over the holidays. Planning together may turn into real fun and a great opportunity to connect with your children...
Whereas pushing your kids to do something they don't want to, would only teach them to be resentful...
I wish you a great holiday season... May our lovely planet will have all the peace and love it deserves this season...
Merry Christmas,
Sedef
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